Nollywood actor Jim Iyke recently opened up about his failed marriage and the personal struggles he faced. Speaking in an interview with Chude Jideonwo, Jim Iyke revealed that despite having three children, not many people are aware of his failed marriage. He attributed the breakdown of his marriage to the death of his mother and acknowledged that he was responsible for its failure.
Jim Iyke explained that while grieving over his mother’s passing, he emotionally disconnected from his partner, who had just given birth to their first son. He admitted to prioritizing his child and investing all his love and attention in him, inadvertently neglecting his wife in the process.
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The actor took full responsibility for the failure of his marriage and emphasized that he doesn’t blame anyone but himself for his mistakes. Jim Iyke acknowledged that his emotional state often led him to make mediocre decisions and highlighted the importance of being emotionally intelligent in all aspects of life.
Reflecting on the impact of his mother’s death, Jim Iyke revealed that due to his close bond with her, no one in the family was willing to break the news to him immediately. He expressed the profound effect her loss had on him, causing him to struggle and experience sleepless nights. His grief resulted in a loss of his sense of humor, his leadership qualities, and his ability to be present in the relationship.
Jim Iyke confessed to becoming an obsessive father, devoting himself entirely to his son’s care and leaving his wife feeling neglected. Eventually, they decided to part ways as friends. Jim Iyke had an honest conversation with his wife, expressing that he needed time to heal and regain his true self. While he offered her the option to wait for him, she chose to move on.
Through his personal journey, Jim Iyke recognizes the importance of taking ownership of his mistakes and learning from them. He has come to understand the significance of emotional intelligence and the impact it can have on relationships.